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ASD is a neurodevelopmental disorder that manifests in early childhood and accompanies a person throughout their life. It encompasses
a wide range of characteristics, including difficulties in communication and social interaction, restricted interests, and challenges in adapting flexibly to their environment.

For Alejandro, Álvaro, and Jaime, this has meant facing obstacles and learning strategies to fully engage in social relationships and better understand the world around them.

The triplets’ parents, Noelia and Jaime (who sadly passed away in 2016), recall how the signs of ASD began to appear when the boys were around 12 months old. They noticed that the children did not respond to their names or point to objects of shared interest, such as airplanes in the sky, barking dogs, or sweets they desired. After multiple medical and psychological evaluations, the diagnosis of ASD was confirmed, marking the beginning of a unique journey for the family.

Álvaro, who suffered a brain injury at birth, received specific education for people with autism during his childhood and adolescence. Meanwhile, his brothers Alejandro and Jaime attended special education classes in schools until the age of 21, striving to integrate into society as best as possible.

Despite sharing an autism diagnosis, Alejandro, Jaime, and Álvaro exhibit different degrees and manifestations of the condition, developing skills and interests unique to their preferences. Each possesses exceptional talents: Alejandro, nicknamed “the artist,” has shown a remarkable talent for drawing and solving complex puzzles since the age of six; Jaime has a prodigious memory, capable of recalling dates and names with astonishing precision; and Álvaro, always accompanied by his “inventions,” creates figures with clay and other objects that provide him with entertainment and stimulation.

Over the years, the triplets have had the support of their parents, professionals, and a large family network in a world marked by repetition and often, misunderstanding.

Despite the challenges, they strive to connect with others; autism does not imply isolation, but rather the need to acquire tools for social interaction, tools they were not born with.

They have also experienced the love and strength of their mother, Noelia, who has rebuilt her life alongside Edmundo in recent years.

The storyof this journey, brought to us by Jose de La Madrid, which began more than a decade ago, reminds us of the importance of giving voice to those who navigate life with different abilities. Alejandro, Álvaro, and Jaime have taught us that autism, like every aspect of the human experience, comes with its own beauty, complexity, and potential for connection. Their story isn’t just about challenges—it’s about perseverance, creativity, and the unbreakable bonds of family.

At Shoot4Change, we believe in the power of storytelling to break down barriers and foster understanding. As we continue to follow the lives of these remarkable brothers, we are reminded that by sharing such stories, we can shine a light on both the struggles and the triumphs of those living with autism, encouraging a more inclusive and compassionate world.

Antonio Amendola

(story and photos by Jose Antonio de Lamdrid)